Morgan—Keeping Things Tidy 

Morgan has lived at Hillside House for nearly 20 years, coming here when he was a young adult. His family encouraged him to get to know people and he has actively sought out friends in the community. He usually inquires about the kind of work people do as he likes to work. He especially likes people who are involved in firefighting and trash collecting. He works in the recycling programs at Hillside House and looks forward to workdays eagerly. He uses an electric wheelchair and is amazingly adept at guiding the chair everywhere he wants to go.

When a new family moved into the neighborhood just a few doors away from Hillside House, Morgan introduced himself and got to know them. He offered to help empty their trash and they agreed. He is very punctual about remembering when they need his help. When the neighbors recognized that there was no continuous sidewalk connecting Hillside House with the walk at their house, they constructed a small ramp to their sidewalk to enable Morgan to reach their driveway safely without riding in the street so he can do the work he loves to do.

Ingelise—Lover of Stage and Screen

Though in some ways she is shy, Ingelise loves performers and performing. A very loving person who enjoys talking to everyone, she is fascinated by popular music, movies and TV personalities. She studies the backgrounds and stories of her favorites—she loves Bob Barker and Sonny and Cher—on the internet and adopts the latest fashions in her own inimitable style. She wheels around the hallways of Hillside House adorned playfully with jewelry and turns her hat sideways at a jaunty angle. 

Although she expresses her enthusiasm for popular culture daily, once a year, she really gets a chance to overcome her shyness, stretch her skills, and shine. The annual holiday season play produced by her day program, Alpha Center, is the centerpiece of her year. Soon after Labor Day Ingelise begins to ask her fellow residents and Hillside House staff, “Are you coming to my play?” Her excitement as the performance approaches is contagious. For the last few years Ingelise has had a central part in the play and she handles it like a veteran of the stage. Last year the play was Johnny Rocker and the Sorcerer’s Phone, and Ingelise played both The Professor and The Headmistress with great aplomb. It’s truly remarkable to see all of the performers in the holiday play working together to create something that brings real joy and an important sense of accomplishment.





Edmundo—Why So Happy? 

Edmundo—Coco as we call him—came to Hillside House 4½ years ago. He is now 27 years old. He is challenged by serious medical and cognitive handicaps. But he is always alert, engaged and smiling. Visitors often ask, “Why is he so happy?” Coco himself doesn’t talk or communicate directly, so our staff must learn to “read” him to know his preferences and respond to his needs. What is clear to everyone is that Coco thrives on the same stuff we all seek: human interaction and affection, sensory stimulation, the sound of familiar voices, a bright warm day. Despite his many challenges, Coco is most often found with a big grin on his face that reminds us simply: “It’s great to be alive!”

Frankie—Finding a Home

Frankie came to us 6 years ago after an unsuccessful placement in another program. He lived with his family here in Santa Barbara for the first 51 years of his life. Then the second of his parents died and there was no one to look after him, so he became a ward of the court. As a long-time Santa Barbaran, everyone knows Frankie, and everyone who knows him likes him. He is very interested in the particulars of others’ lives, and he frequently asks, “Where is your mama?” or “Where is your house?” or sometimes he asks to see your car key. Leaving his family home was a tough adjustment for Frankie, but being able to stay in the same community where he is known, and coming to Hillside House, where he is loved, made that transition easier.

Frankie is ambulatory. He likes TV, movies, magazines and his daily routine. He loves best sitting outside on weekends, watching visiting family members arrive and leave in their cars. He always has a greeting, usually in the form of a question, for each one. He is clearly happy at Hillside House, even after living in his own home for so long. With his warmth and good humor he brings so much to our community.


If you have a personal story you’d like to share with others about Hillside House send it to Curt Lauber:clauber@hillsidehousesb.org
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